“You don’t have to have it all figured out to move forward, just take the next step”
We all want to go through life on our pace but unfortunately, we are sometimes forced to go at the pace of somebody else. We are pressured into having our life figured out and move on like somebody else and this at times take a toll on us. We are forced to live the life of somebody, we end up living a life which doesn’t give us joy. The pressure can be from anywhere. We tend to lay down a lot of expectations on people, we expect others to be a certain way just because we are like that.
The most beautiful thing about life is that it is unique. No two people have the two lives and we need to stop making it happen. The creator clearly intended everyone to have their own unique life and experience and then here we are trying to make amends to the creator’s plans, who do we really think we are? We many times live in guilt, guilt of not having life figured out, not knowing what to do next, not knowing what our next step is going to be. The most amazing thing is you don’t really have to have it all mapped out, our lives are unique and there is a path we all must take, and we have to go through those paths on our own and some reach there faster, some take their time. Some have only the goal in mind and get there sooner than some who take their time to smell the roses and take all the beauty in. Both are right in their own way, reaching that goal early doesn’t make anyone superior, taking your time and slowly arriving doesn’t make you any less good.
We, as a society need to accept that every unique journey has to be experienced by those going through it. Even if nothing is figured out now, it is fine, go through the motions. It’s okay to not know what you want to do for the rest of your life. Remove the negative stigma associated with people who do not have a clear plan for their career or life, it’s theirs to live and not ours to judge. There’s nothing wrong with going with the flow and allowing yourself to grow, evolve, and change. The line to taking time and laziness is thin and we need to successfully stay on the true course. At any time, we can change the course of our lives. It might not always be easy, but all we must do is put one foot forward, knowing we’re creating a change that will bring us more joy in life.
On any one day you can massively change the direction of your life
Going with the flow, evolving as you go. 🙌🏻✨